While writing this post, my heart is full of anticipation of a 5-day retreat with the LORD that only His Sovereign Providence has graciously planned!
To be alone with the LORD in His Word, enjoying His nature, and to be alone in an intentional silence in order to think, to pray, to worship, to petition, to go on long walks, to ponder on His Word, to reflect on His faithfulness, and to study His holy Scriptures … this retreat is a gift of His grace that I’ve been planning for and readying my energies and calendar to enjoy!
We tend to focus so much on so much – our health, our day to day activities, our work, our homes, our families, our friends – all such honorable and right responsibilities requiring our attentions. However, there can easily be a significant and saddening lack of focus on the one thing that truly matters – the one thing that Genesis to Revelation holds high in its Holy Glory. And it’s this …
Our relationship with the LORD God Almighty.
I went to GotQuestions.org and found this helpful article on how to develop a closer relationship with God:
“Developing a closer relationship with God is an admirable goal and reflects a heart that is truly reborn, for only those who are in Christ desire a closer relationship with God. We must also understand that in this life we will never be as close to God as we ought to be or desire to be. The reason for this is lingering sin in our lives. This is not a deficiency on God’s part, but on ours; our sin remains a barrier to the full and complete fellowship with God which will be realized once we’re in glory.
Even the apostle Paul, who had about as close a relationship as one could probably have with God in this life, still longed for a closer relationship:
“Indeed, I count every thing as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which comes through faith in Christ” (Philippians 3:8-9).
No matter where we are in our walk with Christ, we can always have a closer walk, and, even glorified in heaven, we will have all eternity to grow in our relationship with the Lord.
There are five basic things we can do to have a closer relationship with God.
The first thing we can do to have a closer relationship with God is to make a daily habit of confessing our sin to Him. If sin is the barrier in our relationship with God, then confession removes that barrier. When we confess our sins before God, He promises to forgive us (1 John 1:9), and forgiveness is what restores a relationship that has been strained. We must keep in mind that confession is more than simply saying, “I’m sorry for my sin, God.” It is the heartfelt contrition of those who recognize that their sin is an offense to a holy God. It is the confession of one who realizes that his sin is what nailed Jesus Christ to the cross. It is the cry of the publican in Luke 18 who said, “God be merciful to me a sinner!” As King David wrote, “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise” (Psalm 51:17).
The second thing we can do to have a closer relationship with God is to listen when God speaks. Many today are chasing a supernatural experience of hearing God’s voice, but the apostle Peter tells us that we “have something more sure, the prophetic word, to which you will do well to pay attention as to a lamp shining in a dark place, until the day dawns and the morning star rises in your hearts” (2 Peter 1:19). That “more sure prophetic word” is the Bible.
In the Bible, we “hear” God’s voice to us. It is through the “God-breathed” Scriptures that we become “thoroughly equipped for every good work” (2 Timothy 3:16-17). So if we want to grow closer to God, we should read His Word regularly. In reading His Word, we are “listening” to God speak through it by his Spirit who illuminates the Word to us.
Let me insert something here…(this is not part of the GotQuestions article, but just something I’d like to add. But when you experience hearing God’s voice through the pages of Scripture, the thought of trying to hear a “small inner voice” is not entertained because you’ve experienced the resounding Voice of His Scripture. The Holy Spirit works with the Word by bringing to mind verses that leads us, guides us, correct and rebukes us, encourages us, heals and restores us. The Holy Spirit is the Counselor, our Helper, and He counsels with the peace, hope, love, justice, righteousness, faithfulness, grace, mercy and power of the Living Word. He does not speak on His own, but brings to our minds what has already been said. “But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you.” John 14:26 – This is why we read and meditate and memorize God’s Word.
Ok…back to the article.
The third thing we can do to have a closer relationship with God is to speak to Him through prayer. If reading the Bible is listening to God speak to us, speaking to God is accomplished through prayer. The Gospels often record Jesus secreting Himself away to commune with His Father in prayer. Prayer is much more than simply a way to ask God for things we need or want. Consider the model prayer that Jesus gives His disciples in Matthew 6:9-13. The first three petitions in that prayer are directed toward God (may His name be hallowed, may His kingdom come, may His will be done). The last three petitions are requests we make of God after we’ve taken care of the first three (give us our daily bread, forgive us our debts, lead us not into temptation). Another thing we can do to revive our prayer lives is to read the Psalms. Many of the Psalms are heartfelt cries to God for various things. In the Psalms we see adoration, contrition, thanksgiving and supplication modeled in a divinely inspired way.
The fourth thing we can do to have a closer relationship with God is to find a body of believers with whom we can regularly worship. This is such a vital component of spiritual growth. Too often, we approach church with a “what can I get out of it?” mentality. We seldom take the time to prepare our hearts and minds for worship. Again, the Psalms show us many calls from God to His people to come and worship the Lord (for example, Psalm 95:1-2). God invites us, commands us, to come into His presence for worship. How can we, His people, fail to respond? Not only does regular church attendance give us an opportunity to come before the Lord’s presence in worship, but it also gives us an opportunity to fellowship with the Lord’s people. As we come into the house of the Lord in worship and fellowship with His people, we can’t help but grow closer to the Lord as a result.
Finally, a closer relationship with God is built upon a life of obedience. Jesus told His disciples in the upper room, “If you love me, keep my commandments” (John 14:23). James tells us that as we submit ourselves to God through obedience, resist the devil, and draw near to God, He will draw near to us (James 4:7-8). Paul tells us in Romans that our obedience is our “living sacrifice” of thanksgiving to God (Romans 12:1). We must keep in mind that all biblical exhortations to obedience are presented as our response to the grace of God we receive in salvation. We don’t earn salvation through our obedience; rather, it is the way we show our love and gratitude toward God.
So, through confession, Bible study, prayer, regular church attendance, and obedience, we can develop a closer relationship with God. It seems rather simple, if not simplistic. But consider this: how do we develop a closer relationship with other human beings? We spend time with them in conversation, opening our hearts to them and listening to them at the same time. We acknowledge when we’ve done wrong and seek forgiveness. We seek to treat them well and sacrifice our own needs to fulfill theirs. It’s not really that different with our relationship to our Heavenly Father.”
As I looked at the bark of this tree, I couldn’t help but notice that a good bit of its bark has been stripped off. Deliberate deep cuts were made into the tree all the way down to its base that stripped the tree of its bark. However, I also couldn’t help but also notice … it still stood! It was still standing in strength and in display of its Maker’s glory! It still had leaves and a full crown of prosperous and productive branches! The wounds inflicted upon this tree did not cause it to bend or break or lose life. But with a FRESH anointing of rain, sun, and the sustenance of the seasons, this tree will not only heal, but it will continue to give testimony of its endurance…as it is already! It will give testimony of its ability to overcome. It will continue in service for the LORD’s purposes! It is His planting…a planting of the LORD that He may be glorified. Isaiah 61:3 – Therefore, it will give a flourishing testimony to the refreshing and restoring power of its Maker. Same is true of all those born again, born of God; they are a “planting of the LORD that He may be glorified.” And what He plants, no one can uproot. What He purposes, no one can condemn.
Psalm 92:10 speaks of this fresh anointing of oil. “Anointed with fresh oil” is based on a practice of making animal’s horns gleam by rubbing oil on them. God, in effect, had invigorated the Psalmist! The Psalmist, too, was a planting of the LORD that He may be glorified! And the LORD does the same in all His children who intentionally and regularly give praise to the LORD for His faithfulness and love. He ReFreshes with exuberance! Psalm 92 expresses exuberance! Exuberance that God is merciful in salvation, great in His works of creation, just in His dealings with the wicked (those who are not born again), and faithful in prospering His children.
Would a “ReFresh Retreat” be something you may want to plan and place on your calendar? Jesus demonstrated this often in leaving the crowds, leaving His disciples, just so He would have time alone with His Father to pray. Even if a 5-day retreat can’t be blocked off, maybe a long weekend, or all day on a Saturday? As much of ourselves that we “give to” and “sacrifice for” toward our physical health, for our families, our work and our own wants and needs, being intentionally alone with the LORD, truly all alone with Him in His Word, in prayer, in confession and repentance, in worship, and in bible study wouldn’t be a sacrifice at all. Instead, it would be a wonderful time together that your Father would not only honor, but He would love!